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		<title>It’s that price because I want that much money.  Duh.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2022 17:32:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some properties are listed at a price that is really just reflective of what the seller wants to get, not what it’s worth.  It can feel like you’re negotiating with a toddler and is often unsuccessful.  Here’s our approach to developing a pricing strategy that actually gets the home sold.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% / 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-1" style="--awb-text-transform:none;"><p>As of the start of June, 2022, most real estate markets in the GTA are shifting away from the strong seller’s market we’ve seen for the past two years.  In many areas, we’re in a balanced market and in a few we’re actually seeing the beginnings of a buyer’s market.</p>
<p>As the market is shifting, establishing actual value for a home is critically important.  We often say that buyers live in the future and sellers live in the past, in that buyers think about what a home is going to be worth, and sellers focus on what nearby home have sold for recently.  Buyers are very worried right now as there is lots of media focus on the possibility of a housing correction or even crash.  If you can’t provide a good argument for why the home is worth what we’re asking now, they will sit on the sidelines and wait to see what comes next.</p>
<p>Within our team we follow an extremely detailed valuation process and we thought I’d share the two crucial elements we look at in order to build a story around our price – and why buyers should pay it.</p>
<h3>Logic</h3>
<p>One half of the buying story is always built around logic.  While you may think that in the frenzy we’ve seen in the past few years that logic is not a factor in pricing, it really has always remained a key component.</p>
<p>While buyers have paid significant premiums on homes, there has always been an element of logic to their thinking.  If a home for sale is down the street from a similar home that had a smaller backyard and one less bedroom, paying more for it makes sense.  If everyone is saying prices keep going up, paying a significant amount more still makes sense.  After all, it’s a better home, and it will be worth more soon.</p>
<p>When we consider how much a property is worth (whether we’re selling it or considering buying it), we look at the numbers from a few different perspectives.</p>
<ul>
<li>How has the market in which the home is located changed over time and where was the home situated with the market at the time it was purchased? As an example, if a home sold for $750,000 in 2015, at a time when the average sale price was $825,000 for that home type in that area, the home was “valued” at 10% lower than the average.  If the average now is $1.2M, and if we assume the same discount applies, the market would value the home at 10% less than that, or $1.08M.</li>
<li>When we look at recent, comparable sales, what price per sf did those homes realize on their sale? If a house sold for $950,000 and had square footage of 1,780 sf, it sold for about $534 per sf.  If the home we’re selling or considering buying has and extra 300 sf, that would mean it would sell for about $160,000 more based on the price per sf.</li>
<li>While they are often very out of date, we can also use MPAC assessed values as a proxy for the worth of a home when comparing one against another. MPAC uses over 150 factors to determine the assessed value of a home, and if we know a neighbour with a number of small differences sold for $1M and were assessed at $700K, we can determine the estimated value of another home that was assessed at $840K (which is 20% higher) to be worth $1.2M.</li>
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<p>We use this sort of review in order to gather a number of different estimated values.  While any one approach can be prone to inaccuracy due to sample size, market variations and other factors, by looking at a home from a number of different perspectives, we get a very clear sense of what it is worth.  This is, by design, more accurate than simply taking a recent sale and saying it’s maybe a bit more or less based on perceived attributes or deficiencies.</p>
<p>When we work for sellers, we use this work to justify our price.  “We’re worth X because we’re X% bigger and the average price per sf for homes like ours is X.  Also, we’re assessed at X dollars more than that recent sale, which means we should sell for X dollar more.”</p>
<p>When we work for buyers, we use this work to make sure we know what is actually a fair price for the home.  We won’t overpay, because we know the numbers on the comparable properties that the listing agent tells us.  Sometimes, we do our work and realize this is a great opportunity for our buyers, as the seller and their agent failed to realize that they’ve underpriced the home because they didn’t do the review we did.</p>
<p>When you have some logic for why a home is worth a particular price, it can make a huge difference in the eyes of some buyers.  Many people prefer to have a logical rationale for their decision, even if that logic merely helps support their emotional reaction to the home.  That leads us to the next element of a successful pricing strategy.</p>
<h3>Emotion</h3>
<p>While a logical case for why a home is worth a particular price can be very impactful, it is often said that logic makes you think, but emotion makes you act.</p>
<p>Even when it comes to investment properties where one would think it is all about the numbers, investors consider how the purchase makes them feel.  We’ve had a number of investors who declined to buy a property that had great numbers due to the feeling that it would be a big headache to own and oversee.  Emotion is a crucial component to both the decision to buy or sell, as well as to the price that is worth paying.</p>
<p>When we consider how much a property is worth (whether we’re selling it or considering buying it), we look at the feeling of the home from a few different perspectives.</p>
<ul>
<li>Does the home have intrinsic values that will resonate with buyers, now or in the future? For example, a condo with views of the city skyline will hold value and be more valuable than a condo with views of the parking garage or garbage collection area.  An another example would be a house that is facing a pond, which is going to be more appealing than a home that faces another row of homes.</li>
<li>How does the home fit with the type of people who most want to live in the area? For freehold properties, a home that is designed and has a lay out that is suitable for a young single person will be worth less than a more typical, family home, if the area is popular with families due to a desirable school district.  On the condo side, a hip, urban loft that is located within a dated building will always have trouble commanding as high a price due to that disconnect.</li>
<li>What work would need to be done to alleviate concerns or deficiencies within the home? Many sellers discount the impact that such issues have on desirability in the minds of buyers and tend to think of them only in logical, cost terms.  In reality, it isn’t simply the cost to renovate or repair the issue, but the time, the energy, the risk and uncertainty that goes into addressing the issue.</li>
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<p>When we work with sellers, we prepare homes for sale in ways that increase the emotional appeal to the type of buyer we are targeting.  We highlight the best, intrinsic aspects of the home, we style and stage the home to reflect what buyers will want to see and we either do the work to address deficiencies or we have detailed estimates and workups for the cost and time to do so.  When we combine all of these aspects, we have a home that feels right for the buyer, which means the logical case we have built for the price is accepted or even exceeded.</p>
<p>When we work with buyers, we look past the glitz of a staged property to search for any fundamental issues with the property that will limit appreciation over time.  We identify ways in which the home could be changed in order to reflect how our buyers live and we look into what it would actually cost in time and resources to fix any existing issues.</p>
</div><div class="fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep" style="align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:15px;width:100%;"><div class="fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid" style="--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#af2026;border-color:#af2026;border-top-width:1px;"></div><span class="icon-wrapper" style="border-color:#af2026;background-color:#ffffff;font-size:15px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px"><i class="fa-home fas" style="font-size: inherit;color:#af2026;" aria-hidden="true"></i></span><div class="fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid" style="--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#af2026;border-color:#af2026;border-top-width:1px;"></div></div><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-2" style="--awb-text-transform:none;"><p>When you combine a logical review with an understanding of emotional factors, there is a clear and compelling case that can be made for the value for any specific home.  Whether it is on the selling side or the buying side, when your agent does this work you end up with the best result for you in the transaction.  If that sounds appealing, don’t hesitate to <a href="https://www.refinedrealestateteam.com/contact-us/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">get in touch</a>!</p>
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		<title>Sure, it’s nice, but what’s it worth?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeffrey Luciano]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 19:19:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[After preparing, searching, debating and deciding, you’ve found a home to buy.  Now it’s time to put a number on the offer…but what’s the number?  Here’s how we make sure our clients avoid buyer’s regret and understand what price to pay.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:calc( 1100px + 0px );margin-left: calc(-0px / 2 );margin-right: calc(-0px / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:0px;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:0px;--awb-spacing-left-medium:0px;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:0px;--awb-spacing-left-small:0px;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-3"><p>Deciding how much to pay for a property is an intense process.</p>
<p>Depending on how long the search has been going on, your financing options, the market dynamics at your price point, location and housing type, as well as your own personal situation, when you reach the stage where you’re actually putting pen to paper (or more likely these days, clicking on a digital form!) it can be very stressful to come up with <u>the</u> number to put down on the offer.</p>
<p>There’s a simple way to remove lots of the stress from the offer process – decide on your options beforehand and go in prepared.</p>
<p>It begins with us doing our work examining comparable sales, equalizing for differences, analyzing market data and current trends and presenting you with our purchase pricing scale.  This gives you three prices that we can use to decide on our approach going in and our reaction to what happens during the offer process.</p>
<p>Here’s an example of what the purchase pricing scale looks like.</p>
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<p>Now let’s go over what each price point means and how you use the scale to get the property you want, at a price you’re comfortable with!</p>
<h3>A Good Price</h3>
<p>This specific price is the point at which we can say with great conviction, anything below this price is a good price.  The further below we go, the better the price, but anything up to and including this price is a good price.</p>
<p>When you talk with friends or family and compare prices for real estate, you’ll feel good about how much you paid.  When it comes time to sell and you realize an amazing return, you’ll feel great about how much you paid!</p>
<p>If you buy the property at or under this specific dollar amount, you’ve got a good price.  It’s that simple.</p>
<h3>An Acceptable Price</h3>
<p>The second price we identify is the point up to which we say the price is acceptable.  It’s not going to make us jump up and down necessarily, but it is most certainly acceptable.  We aren’t going to have any problems with an appraisal coming in for less and no one is going to raise their eyebrows at you if you discuss how much you paid for your home.</p>
<p>If you buy the property for more than the price we identified as the Good Price, but up to this price point, you’ve bought it an acceptable price.  It won’t feel like you got a bargain, but you also won’t feel like you made a hasty decision that you’ll regret.  The most likely way you’d describe it is that it was a bit more than what you’d hoped for but you’re still really happy with the purchase.</p>
<p>The good news is that as time passes and real estate prices grow, an Acceptable Price doesn’t take too long to become a Good Price!</p>
<h3>A Necessary Price</h3>
<p>The final possible price is what we’re calling a necessary price.  This is any purchase price over what we have identified as an Acceptable Price.</p>
<p>To be clear, this is not a bad price or you over-paying for the property.  Calling it either of those indicates that we somehow made a mistake or were taken advantage of when we bought at this price.</p>
<p>It’s called a necessary price because it was the price you HAD to pay to get this property.</p>
<p>Maybe it was because of market conditions, because of your situation, because of multiple buyers competing for the property – regardless of the reason (or reasons), this is the price you had to pay to get the home.</p>
<p>To be clear, calling this the necessary price doesn’t mean you’re willing to pay it.  In many cases, this may be the price beyond which you just aren’t comfortable paying as you know it will take some time to recover that via price appreciation.</p>
<p>Regardless of whether you decide to go to this price or not, it’s still the necessary price to be paid to buy the property.  By understanding what that price is beforehand, you are in a much more comfortable place if the offer process ends up at this point.  The decision then is whether you want to pay this price, knowing that it is beyond what “should” have been paid in other situations.</p>
</div><div class="fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep" style="align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:35px;width:100%;"><div class="fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid" style="--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#af2026;border-color:#af2026;border-top-width:1px;"></div><span class="icon-wrapper" style="border-color:#af2026;background-color:#ffffff;font-size:15px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px"><i class="fa-home fas" style="font-size: inherit;color:#af2026;" aria-hidden="true"></i></span><div class="fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid" style="--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#af2026;border-color:#af2026;border-top-width:1px;"></div></div><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-4"><p>Without a doubt, buying a home is a stressful experience.  The biggest element of that stress is being forced to make a high value purchase when you aren’t ready to do so.</p>
<p>When you enter into an offer process with an understanding of what good, acceptable and necessary prices are for the property, you remove a lot of that stress.</p>
<p>Our goal remains to get you the property at the lowest possible price and by understanding the different price points in our scale, we develop an offer strategy designed to do that.  Given we can’t control the market or seller’s behaviour, this approach is helpful in making it clear whether where we end up is good, acceptable or necessary.  It relieves stress, makes decisions easier and results in a better experience.</p>
<p>If you are looking to buy a home, you need to work with agents who understand both how to assess property value as well as prepare you for the offer process and how to get what you want at a price you are willing to pay.  By doing so, you will never be in a situation where you get caught up and make the wrong decision.  If that sounds appealing, <a href="https://www.refinedrealestateteam.com/contact-us/">get in touch</a>!</p>
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		<title>Three ways to kill a negotiation</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeffrey Luciano]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2017 17:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Let’s assume for a moment that I want something from you.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let’s assume for a moment that I want something from you.</p>
<p>Say we ran into each other, grabbed a coffee and as we’re catching up, I notice your watch.</p>
<p>You’re talking about how money is a little tight but I start tuning out what you’re saying as I stare at your watch.  Look at it – all shiny and fancy, making you look like a person of worth and value.  With that watch on you, you seem taller, thinner, your hair is fuller and your teeth are whiter.</p>
<p>I begin nodding to myself, saying, “Yes, Jeff, that’s the ticket, you need a watch like that.  A watch that tells people you meet you’re upstanding and successful and know the time.  Not just know the time, but you know what’s going on, what’s going down, what’s happening.”</p>
<p>I look up from the watch and you’re gazing at me with a bemused expression.  You shake your wrist and say to me, “You like the watch?” and I pounce on the question, ready to make your watch, my watch.<span id="more-1346"></span></p>
<p>In my years as a Realtor, I’ve negotiated hundreds of times for the purchase or sale of real estate.  In 2016 the average real estate transaction I helped clients make was just over $758,000, so we’re talking about significant dollar amounts for both the buyer and seller in the transaction.</p>
<p>Not all of the hundreds of negotiations resulted in a purchase or sale.  Sometimes we couldn’t come to an agreement and sometimes another party swooped in to seal the deal.  I believe it to be true that with proper negotiation, most deals can take place.</p>
<p>As more and more technology is harnessed for real estate, negotiating the purchase or sale of a property remains one of the most important skills your Realtor needs to possess.  Without a seasoned negotiator on your side you can leave money on the table or fail to get a deal done.</p>
<p>Let’s go back to this watch of yours that I admire so much and I’ll use it as an example of the three ways in which I’ve seen people kill a negotiation.</p>
<p>I’m gazing at your watch like Gollum gazes at the Ring to Rule Them All and you ask me if I like your watch.  I look up and answer.</p>
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<li><strong><u>Your watch? I was actually thinking it looks broken.</u></strong></li>
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<p>On a number of occasions, I’ve had a Realtor on the other side of the negotiating table tell me everything that was wrong with the property I had listed for sale.  It was like the opposite of the marketing material I had prepared, where every good thing was either not mentioned or dismissed and everything he and his buyer didn’t like was explained in great detail.</p>
<p>If I looked at your watch, looked at you and then proceeded to tell you everything that was both inherently wrong with it as well as everything that was wrong for me about it, you might be inclined to tell me to get lost.</p>
<p>Focusing on the negatives (real or perceived) of something for sale as a negotiating tactic backfires if you try it against an experienced negotiator.  In the case of the Realtor above, he submitted a low ball offer and when I asked him why the price was so low, he started reciting his list.  I let him go on and on about all of the problems and when he finally ran out of steam, I asked him a simple question.</p>
<p><em>“If all of these things are wrong with the property, why does your client want to buy it?”</em></p>
<p>In the silence that followed I could have gone and made myself a cup of coffee, read the newspaper, and called my mom for a chat.  I finally broke the silence myself and told him it was clear that he and his client didn’t see the value in the property and we would sell it to someone who did.</p>
<p>Within an hour I had a new offer from him at just under the asking price and we sold it.  Because it was a nice condo, damnit.</p>
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<li><strong><u>Huh? Yeah, it’s nice.  Here’s how this is gonna work.</u></strong></li>
</ol>
<p>If you’ve ever run into someone who’s been given a little bit of power and they’re determined to lord it over everyone they meet, you know how this sort of negotiation plays out.</p>
<p>I’ve dealt with Realtors on both the buying and selling side who were clearly of the belief that they were the only game in town.  Every real estate negotiation has four key negotiating points:</p>
<ul>
<li>Sale price</li>
<li>Deposit</li>
<li>Closing Date</li>
<li>Conditions (financing, home inspection, status certificate, etc.)</li>
</ul>
<p>In every negotiation, both sides have preferences for these points.  A skilled negotiator does their best to determine which is important to each side and to avoid having them used as negotiating points to impact another aspect.  If a quick closing date is valuable to a buyer and I represent the seller, then we can leverage that aspect to get a better sale price.</p>
<p>How do you think the negotiation would go if I looked at your watch and used the fact that you said money was tight to offer you a cheap price, told you I wanted the watch today, that I would pay you next week and only after my brother inspected the watch to make sure it wasn’t a piece of junk?  I think you might stand up and shout “Anyone apart from this jerk want to buy a watch?” and see if you can’t find a buyer who treated you better.</p>
<p>Negotiations take place between people – and people like to buy and sell with someone they like.  I’m not being naïve when I say this – I know that price and other factors are crucial.  I have seen a number of negotiations fail because one side decided the other side was a jerk.  Logic makes you think but emotion makes you act and I’ve had a number of my buyer clients win in multiples because the seller decided they liked me and how we approached the deal.  Showing consideration for the other side’s situation can result in a better deal.</p>
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<li><strong><u>Yes I do – here, take my wallet.</u></strong></li>
</ol>
<p>The final way to make sure a negotiation fails is to not negotiate.  I’m not talking about offering a price and refusing to budge.  I’m talking about saying sure, that’s a good price and pulling out your money.  I know that sounds like a sure fire way to get a deal done, but think it through with me.</p>
<p>If I offered you anything you wanted for your watch, would you react with joy and take the deal?  Or would you raise your eyebrows and reconsider the situation.  Did you maybe underestimate the value of your watch if I will pay that price happily?  Is there something extraordinary about my watch compared to other watches out there that means I shouldn’t sell it after all?</p>
<p>One of the most frustrating experiences in real estate for a buyer is to find a property they love, at a price they are prepared to pay, and for the seller to decide not to sell it to them.  Happily, I’ve only had it happen on a few occasions and in each case it was because the seller did not have trust in their listing agent and when they received an offer for the price they had asked, they decided it wasn’t enough.</p>
<p>When such an event takes place, it is immensely damaging to the relationship between the seller and the prospective buyer.  It is not acting in good faith and the buyer proclaims this isn’t fair and the chance of a deal going forward is very slim.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, a negotiation is successfully concluded when both sides come to a deal they feel good about.</p>
<p>In all negotiations, an earnest attempt to negotiate should be made.  On many occasions I have had my buyers agree to a price after one round of negotiations, and I feel there is still some money being left on the table.  When it is possible to negotiate further without risking the deal in place, I do so.  Often, this results in a better deal for my buyers as the sellers agree to an additional drop in price.  When done respectfully and with consideration for the other side, “hard negotiating” simply means that the deal achieved is fair for both parties.</p>
<p>If you or someone you like is considering buying or selling a watch..uh..I mean, real estate, please make sure to get in touch.  I’d love to be responsible for what comes next.</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Jeff</p>
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<p><strong>HOUSE FOR A SMALL FAMILY</strong></p>
<p><i>Give the house three distinct parts:  a realm for parents, a realm for the children, and a common area.  Conceive these three realms as roughly similar in size, with the commons the largest.<br />
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Whenever I visit friends with young kids, I can tell very quickly if the house is designed properly for them to live in it and follow this lesson.  When children&#8217;s toys are everywhere and the parent&#8217;s room is also the playground for the kids, I know that I&#8217;ll be getting a call as soon as finances allow.</p>
<p>When a home is laid out in such a way that there is no distinct parents area or no distinct children&#8217;s area, the house quickly feels too small for comfortable living.</p>
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